Ok When ever I see I beautiful women I always like to compliment them and tell them how beautiful they look. I am very attracted to women don't get me wrong. If I see a beautiful women I look at her and say. You look very beautiful tonight. Or that dress look really beautiful on you. They look at me and say "F***off"! I'm just like Wow. What the hell did I do? I was giving them a nice compliment. Its not like I'm trying to get into their pants or anything. Why do women always get upset When you tell them how nice they look. Shouldn't that put them on a pedestal and make them feel good? Here's a funny story .
One time I bought a women that I was going with at the time and. I thought hmm It was valentines day. She got mad at me last time because I forgot valentine's day. So I bought her a dozen roses and a small box of chocolates and a card to go with it. I gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek and I said: "Happy Valentines Day and ! I said I didn't forget this time.
So I went and I sat down in a chair watching her from a distance opening up the card and reading it and I'm thinking wow she really likes it.. She looks over at me with kind of a smirk on her face. Starts reading the card. So she finishes reading the card. She lays the card down. I also gave her a vase to put her flowers in. I said with a smile I said .yeah I got that vase for you too. So you would have something to put your flowers in then. She gives me a mean look and comes charging at me with a closed fist and then sucker punches me right in the face and literally knocked me out of my chair backwards. I was like WTH? She looks at me dead in the face and she said: WE CAN'T AFFORD THIS!!!!!!!!! Anyways What do you guys think? What did I do wrong???? Do you think it was me?Also. Why are women like this????
Thank you Mathew V. I will take that into consideration
That was a true story btw. About the slugging me in the face. Its all true.
Sorry if this comes out as harsh, but I find it best to be frank in situations as this. First, it seems you do a crappy job of picking your women, mate. If a woman acts that way towards you after paying her a compliment, just tell her "I take that back, actually you look hideous". If they say anything else, then say something like "You told me to piss off when I told you the truth, so I told you what you wanted to hear instead. Bloody hell, what's wrong with you?". Women like that are not worth your time. If someone charged at me with a closed fist, I don't care, man or woman, I would strike back. If someone wants to be violent with me, they'd best be prepared for the consequences. I would never throw the first punch, but I never put up with physical mistreatment. While you may not want to deal with a woman that same way, refuse to put up with it. You did nothing wrong. Not all women are like that, but much more are today than ever before. Fear not, you'll find yourself the girl of your dreams. Learn to see the red flags, and especially don't put up with these women. What even attracts you to them? Do they act "flavourful", "exciting", "colourful", "wyld"? Well, whatever it may be, you may have need for reprogramming yourself. But most important, put up not with their behaviour. If them you let think there sits a sign on your head that says "mistreat me", they will. Or perhaps, they are acting in a manner unlike how they really are. Again, see for the red flag warnings, with that one woman they should have gone off as an alaarm clock. Don't let them lead you around the garden. See them for who they are, and if you see not who they are early on, be done with them as soon as you find out. Lie not to yourself over these matters, it will NOT get better.
